quinta-feira, 28 de janeiro de 2010

One simple question

Do you believe its possible to happens a genuine, honest friendship between a man and a woman? No sex, no drama, no nothing, but plain good hearted friendship.
Im really curious on what you girls think...


12 comentários:

Blu disse...

Yes. I have great guy friends and we've had great times just hanging out and doing nothing.
I think friendship happens between all kinds of people and this is just one type of friendship. To me, a man and a woman can be friends with no drama. I don't understand people who don't believe this.
I can't explain very well, but yes, a man and a woman can have a plain good-hearted friendship.

Karyn disse...

I do believe they can, in fact my Dh and I were very good friends before he made the move and kissed me, this was 30 years ago mind you, but I do believe that it still stands true.
Now, the Mom in me must ask "Why do you ask sweetie?"
Hugs
Ma

Isabella Morais disse...

sim sim Janinha, poder sim existir amizade pura, sem sexo. Eu tenho amigos homens mas a maioria foi ex namorado e ex ficante..

Amigo p/ todas as coisas mesmo eu n tenho, mas conheço quem tenha.

♥ Nia disse...

Completamente! Não tenho qualquer dúvida e tenho excelentes e grandes amigos :)
Inclusivé, tenho a minha melhor amiga e o meu melhor amigo. Ambos me acompanharam em quase metade da vida! E sempre partilhei tudo, tanto com um como com outro. Sexo, com nenhum dos dois, tá? hahahahah
E o meu melhor amigo foi sempre um apoio muito grande, na área de namorados sempre ajudava com o ponto de vista masculino e sempre me deu bons conselhos :)

E tu? Quem é o teu amigo? ;) hahahaah

Jennifer disse...

Absolutely. I have 3 very good male friends, and I can talk to all three of them about almost anything. (I tend to keep "girl" stuff like that "time of the month" reserved for my girl friends though. LOL) And my husband has a very good female friend, though he's a little bit of a slacker when it comes to keeping in touch with her (she lives in another state)

Janaina disse...

Blu: I totally understand what you mean, thanks for answering! I feel the same!=)

Karyn: lol... A few weeks ago someone I was talking to a person who stated that its absolutely impossible that a man and a woman have a sincere sex free friendship relation. According to that person (a man, btw) "simple plain truth is: whenever you have a person who has a penis, that person will, sooner or later, try to use it". Made me think to myself "ok... so what about a castrate man and a woman? lol".
So far all ppl answering my question think the same - yes, its possible to happens true friendship between boys and girls - and I wonder... Is that just because of our gender that we think like that? Mmm...

Isa e Nia: obrigada por responderem! =) Eu não tenho,hj, amigos homens, mas já tive. Sinceros e muito leais por sinal...

Jennifer: lol. I dont talk about "that time of the month" not even with my gf's! So you're waaay better than me! Lmao. I would blush like forever, even it was a girls only kinda talk.

Paty disse...

Janoca, acredito sim... por mais q as vezes a amizade se inicia com algum tipo de atração, acredito que possa existir amizade sem interesse, apenas por afinidade e carinho...
Tenho amigos homens, poucos mas bons amigos...

bjs
Paty

♥ Nia disse...

Não concordo com essa de que 'todo o homem a dado momento vai querer usá-lo'! Lol! Quando a amizade é verdadeira, viramos mais irmãos que outra coisa! Fica dificil para um amigo ver a mulher com desejo para lhe saltar em cima! hahahaha :D O homem que não consegue aceitar a amizade entre ambos os sexos, simplesmente não sabe o que é uma Amizade verdadeira :p

Atelier Caseiro disse...

Jana eu acredito sim, tenho bons amigos homens e existe nós a mesma sinceridade que tenho com as minhas amigas.
Acho saudável esse vinculo, sem nenhum interesse além da mais sincera amizade.
A meu ver as estações só se misturam se houver carencia de uma das partes e a outra confundir os sentimentos.

too_busy_to_stitch disse...

Yes, I think it's very possible - had many friends who were men when I was at college. Though I think it would be difficult when you are with someone else - mainly because they probably wouldn't totally be sympathetic!

Malena disse...

Yes, I think it can happen. I have a friend, a real, good friend, just like that.
hugs
malena

Bren's Stitches disse...

My friend Jon and I have been friends oh let me think 12 almost 13 yrs. At first he came around because he thought I was cute. But within a short time of knowing me I was sooo not the type for him. And well he was never my type. From the summer b4 Jr High(7th grade), even the same college for awhile, and still today, there hasn't been even a tiny bit of romantic notion between us. He's simply family. So yes without a doubt men and women can just be friends with no romantic attatchment. However, its not the norm and alot of men can pretend to be friends with a women who simple wait just for an opening for you to be single and see if they can turn it into more.